There is nothing wrong in wishing the best for your own wedding. It is normal, especially with the bride. But you cannot loss the fact that the more expectations you have for your wedding day, the more stress it can cause you. The greater the excitement that you feel, the bigger the possibility that something might just go wrong along the way.
That is where focus claims its place. You must establish your mind to what is needed to do, and set aside the issues that are less in priority. Keep track on the plans that you have and do not go beyond than that, because this is the part that will take place first before your very own wedding day. Remembering these simple thoughts will also help you in organizing and managing your wedding plan accordingly.
- The Number – Discuss with your soon to be husband about the number of guests that you will have for your wedding day. It is important that you must set the limit for it particularly with the wedding which is tight in budget. If the lists of invited person exceeds with your limit, you must set the priority. Choose the most important person that is necessary for your wedding, and just make up with those you can't have for that day.
- The Location – You have the option whether to have a church or a non-church wedding. If you plan to have it inside the church, you need to have a formal entourage, decorations, and dresses. This is the church's practice, so you have to respect it. But if you choose the non-church, it will give you more freedom for your own wedding ceremony. You can make your wedding as unique as you want and you can hold the occasion in any place that you wish to have. If you wish to rent an area from resorts or any other place which holds wedding events, make sure to book as early as possible because every couple who plans to get married thinks this way.
- The Flowers – Choosing the flower which is in season is the very nice idea for this. Flowers that are abundant during the time of your wedding will surely save you from a high cost because they will usually have a lesser price. You must remember that flowers will play an important part for your wedding. From the bride's bouquet, the bride's maid, flower girls, groom, parents, member of the entourage, everyone of them will need flower. Even the tables where your guests will stay must have flower arrangement above it. So it is very important to choose the flower that you will use wisely and practicaly.
- The Reception – Arrange your guest's places after the wedding ceremony beforehand. It is adviced to have some labels among the tables that you will set up in the reception area. It is important to avoid commotion and scattering in the part of the guests. If possible, have someone who will announce or guide the guests to the tables where they were assigned to be. It will make your after ceremony party in tune.
- The Freedom – Everything will not go on according to the way we wanted it. No matter how many months you have prepared for this, how often of the day you think of the result, there will always be a part that will slip out your hands. It is not your fault, that is just the way it will go. But one thing is sure, what gone wrong will only be noticed by you because you expected something from it. The guests and other people who are involved with the occasion are just enjoying, so you must go with them. Besides, that is the major objective that must be meet for the day.
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